The ego, as you know, is clever, very clever. It can utilize everything for its own protection and perpetuation – including spirituality. With the very tools created for its dissolution, it can etch out a new version of itself. And since the old big-bad-ego has got more bad press than Kim Jong-un, it has been reinventing itself across the world in a new avatar: the new-age-ego. Since it is even more deceptive in this crystal-addicted, incense-sniffing guise, GD and me had a sit down to identify this new-age-ego in all its new-age glory. At the end of our hilarious session, we identified its eleven most important commandments, which are active below the surface at all times.
- THOU SHALT NOT REST
Speed is one of the most under-appreciated tricks of the new-age-ego. Busyness, anxiety, rushing are all hallmarks of a superlative ego at work. Of course, the new-age-ego chases new-age goals, which are indisputably noble. Between perfecting your downward dog and saving gay humpback whales, the ego ensures you don’t keep any time for yourself.
Even when you are on the potty, the ego won’t let you rest – it will insist you reply to at least three emails, read two pages of Eckhart Tolle and retweet Rumi on Twitter. After all, you have to ‘live up to your full potential’.
* - THOU SHALT ALWAYS HAVE SOMEONE TO STAND AGAINST
Without an opposition, any good ego would just wither away, so it needs to maintain the perception of an enemy. Whether it’s the corporations or the cults, whether it’s old feudal religions or new two-minute-noodle sects, the ego must have opposition. What’s the point of all your spiritual learning, the ego whispers, if you can’t even use it to prove how unevolved, lost and clueless the others are! To create a powerful ‘I’, one must create a powerful ‘you’.
Tip: To create an ultra-strong-industrial-strength-ego, judge the entire planet and everybody that lives on it.
* - THOU SHALT ‘SPIRITUALIZE’ YOUR WORLDLY DESIRES
Let’s make this simple. Working hard for months to earn money for a Ferrari is bad, but visualising and manifesting a Ferrari is good… and spiritual. Instead of revealing your desperation to impress chicks, let the Ferrari be proof of how open and receptive you are to abundance.
Wise ancient teachers intoned that ‘greed’ is the cause of suffering, so no problem: simply chase ‘abundance’ instead! Say “I am not greedy, hungry, desperate and insecure – I just want abundance!” That way, you can be completely entangled in the Maya while still maintaining the glow of transcendence in your Facebook posts.
* - THOU SHALT GLORIFY THY MUNDANE EXISTENCE
Thou shalt give spiritual meaning and interdimensional interpretation to everything. Name your kid after an unheard of Sufi Mystic. Name your dog after an unpronouncable Zen Master. See mysterious synchronicities in Facebook posts. And mistake truck headlights for landing Plaeidian spacecraft!
If you have a toothache, it is because of an X-class solar flare in Sunspot AR2291. And if you fart like a bulldog, you are merely purging your root chakra!
Bottomline: To create a spectacular, topped-to-the-brim ego, make sure there is nothing simple or ordinary about your life.
* - THOU SHALT NOT BE RESPONSIBLE
Misapply the principle of non-doership to suit your needs. Take credit for everything that’s going well, and blame the universe/karma/life lesson for the rest. Bottomline: if you make a pile of money, attribute it to your high vibrations and connections with the ascended masters. But if you go bankrupt, call it the ‘dark night of the soul’ and throw an about-to-be-enlightened party.
* - THOU SHALT SEEK BUT NEVER FIND
Keep up the appearance of spiritual seeking, the ego advises, but remember to always remain in the state of ‘I’m-almost-there’. Become a workshop junkie or a guru shopper but remember what you seek should always remain ‘just-around-the-corner’. If you are the armchair seeker variety, scrounge hungrily on Amazon or YouTube to purchase even more books you will never read and mark new videos you will never see.
Bottomline: Scatter all your energies on the internet, follow dozens of teachers simultaneously, pontificate on chat groups, go to bed every night confused, overwhelmed and exhausted. Become so addicted to seeking that there is no space for finding.
* - THOU SHALT BE OBSESSED WITH THE BODY
Keep asserting that you are an ‘infinite being beyond time and space’, while keeping a hawk-eye on every pimple, wrinkle and milligram of flesh on your waistline. Use all your spiritual tools to look younger, fitter and manifest a neon halo. Perfect your soul beads, your esoteric body processes, and your macro-vegan-lactose-intolerant-glutenfree diet.
Tip: Being obsessed with the body is the best way to maintain a rock solid six-pack ego!
* - THOU SHALT CONSTANTLY BE LOOKING FOR A PERFECT PARTNER
Your purpose in life is to find the One who will fulfill you, complete you and make you eternally happy. No, no, what made you think we’re talking about God? We are talking about your soul mate!
So thou shalt be constantly looking for the perfect partner… even if you just got engaged last week! In case you don’t have any luck, switch to Plan B: Thou shalt constantly try to perfect your existing partner.
Tip: Being obsessed with the ‘other’ is like Viagra for the new-age-ego.
* - THOU SHALT OBSESSIVELY PROTECT YOURSELF
It very important that you feel increasingly vulnerable and sensitive as proof of your enormous evolution. So you must need more and more protection from entities, black magic, negative energy… and especially your spouse and relatives! Gift yourself a fortress of crystals, candles, talismans and other expensive energetic protection tools. Because you’re worth it.
* - THOU SHALT FIND YOUR ‘SPECIALNESS’
What’s the point of being spiritual if it does not even make you feel special and unique! So find a guru who makes you feel uber unique… or find disciples who make you feel super special. Or find a complicated spiritual system with obscure terminology and infinite levels which only a chosen few understand – that too after they pay $1,11,111 (local taxes extra).
Tip: it is not important that you understand the path or process, as long as it is expensive and the salesperson is impressive!
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- THOU SHALT NEVER EVER ASK THE ONE QUESTION
This is the final and the most important commandment of the new-age-ego. Don’t ever ask the question ‘Who Am I?’
Never, ever question – who is the one chasing desire, who is the one seeking the soul mate or who is still miserable after so many years of spiritual searching.
You are allowed to travel to Machu Picchu, eat Spirulina till you turn green and spend a lifetime chanting Sanskrit verses, but stay away from stillness at all cost.
Stay obsessed with past lives or future prophecies, just don’t come to this moment.
And don’t ever, ever relax, pause and become silent. Because that is the one thing even the new-age-ego can’t survive.
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Awesome ! I have got almost all the facets of the ego mentioned above ha!
Awesome post Thanks Aalif and GD ! I have got almost all the facets of ego mentioned here 🙂
Thanks Deen… any resemblance is purely “not” coincidental to all of us.. Ha Ha
On the Battlefield of Our Mind
Never ending battles in our mind
Hearts wounded, lives entwined
A war fare fought in ignorance
Authorities overthrown by our benevolence
Bodies weakened from senses blind
Soldiers stand strategically aligned
Overlooking the wisdom of what takes precedence
Ego builds our false confidence
Straightening our frame and silencing our mind
Leaving past memories consciously behind
With efforts sincerely made to regain our intelligence
We stake claims to distinguish our providence
Narrowing our focus on peace refined
Spirit resurrected and energies combined
Techniques modified to increase our tolerance
Reminding ourselves of our spiritual significance
On the battlefield of our mind
Succumb not to darkness enshrined
Traveling progressively, establishing a balance
“Who am I?” Is exchanged for our perseverance
In Divine Friendship….. Marla Maharaj
Despite our ego and our personal and so claimed, unique experiences….we will all get to a place of knowing who we are and what our purpose is in one of these cycles of life and death.
Thank you for the divine friendship Marla Maharaj! Till we get to the place of knowing, its so nice to laugh with friends 🙂
So insightful and clever!
Your tips are hilarious Aalif 🙂
Thanks Val! GD and me had a blast creating it… And, we forgot to add, the other thing the ego can’t handle it laughing at itself.
It must be hiding in a corner right now! 😉
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One of the best posts about the New Age Ego from Aalif over at Superaalifragilistic – insightful and funny!!
Funny! My favorite:
3. THOU SHALT ‘SPIRITUALIZE’ YOUR WORLDLY DESIRES
Let’s make this simple. Working hard for months to earn money for a Ferrari is bad, but visualising and manifesting a Ferrari is good… and spiritual. Instead of revealing your desperation to impress chicks, let the Ferrari be proof of how open and receptive you are to abundance.
Wise ancient teachers intoned that ‘greed’ is the cause of suffering, so no problem: simply chase ‘abundance’ instead! Say “I am not greedy, hungry, desperate and insecure – I just want abundance!” That way, you can be completely entangled in the Maya while still maintaining the glow of transcendence in your Facebook posts.
Why did the image of Tony Robbins pop to mind as I read this???
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I think we can all see a bit of ourselves in this very amusing blog . Thanks Aalif for cheering up my afternoon 🙂
I don’t know how you find the time to write such insightful blogs in this ‘New Age’ Aalif, but I’m so glad you do! Since I gave up full-time work to to concentrate on my art, I no longer have this kind of pressure on me and can go back to ‘Old-Age’ ways. Though I think I’m still guilty of the odd ego-trip on Facebook LOL
Reading this certainly cheered up my afternoon tea-break 🙂
Loved this!
ha ha ha. Loved this one Aalif. Even the image that looks so much like GD:)Thanks. Re-blogging it…
12. Thou shalt fight the ego, resist it and seek to destroy it.
When the ego fails at everything else it loves to side with you in your war against it. Because whenever we are against something, we empower it. We give it power over us, and it creates resistance in us. By trying to destroy or kill the ego we actually make it stronger!
So the practice becomes one of awareness and consciousness, without criticism or judgment. We become aware of when the ego is showing up in what we are doing, feeling saying or thinking. We just bring our awareness to it, just observing it, and ultimately we end up freeing ourselves of the ego, without going to war against it.
Excellent article! Very well presented – it definitely made me laugh! Spirituality is a laughing matter, so you for presenting this in such a humorous and loving manner!
Wow! Love this! “Knowingly”LOL!!!
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insightful humor and factual! i couldn’t stop laughing while reading it. One of the best posts about the ‘New Age Ego’
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Sign of the times…
It’s not fair that you and GD write about me in such detail and never once mention my name. If I wasn’t so spiritual I’d be offended!
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A masterpiece by the Aalif-Gd inimitable duo. Thanks bros. This time you have outdone yourselves! hahahahahaha…
Wow ! Isn’t it true in many ways than one . Yet all these are part of the grand game called Life in which evolution is an apparent part , though it should be the whole !
Very Apt and so funny!! I sent it to so many idiots!!!
Came across your site via Google, looking for “What did Buddha really say?,” given how so much of the current literature sounds more like what a clever assistant professor of New Age Asian Studies might have put together as a self-published holiday gift for beloved friends in 2010 rather than what the Buddha might have uttered in 2500 BC. Almost left, then got snagged by the title of this post, then found myself chortling louder & louder from one point to the next. All right, I surrender: Sign me up!
“And if you fart like a bulldog, you are merely purging your root chakra!” OMG so funny… So happy i stumbled across this blog!
Thanks Janelle… So happy you stumbled across it too. Anyone who loves a toot while looking for the truth is welcome here… 🙂
I have made it through the first two marathons. It took me only 17 years to do it. Five more marathons to go. Whatever you do while still in Life and identity 1.0. it is an illusion. Only God can take you out of your own mind. But since all those seekers are only interested in their own truth, I will stop here.